Never ever use any kind of "#dating app". #Queer or not, it's all about personal data harvesting and social manipulation. Whenever someone recommends a #datingApp, run away, fast!
Run even faster from any product by #MatchGroup:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Match_Group#Dating_services_owned
Maybe, if there were sth. free and #community driven, it would be acceptable…
(Not sure about a good name for it, though. Distridate? Fedifuck? Geekmeet? Mastorbate? OK, I give up.)