Anxiety! It is the enemy of gay sex. You feel it when you are not a power bottom who is going to get fucked. You want it. He's hot, his cock is beautiful, and he has you turned on, but even if you don't realize it, you feel anxiety. Are you clean enough? Will it hurt? Are you tight enough?

Of these, for many of us, the pain issue is a huge contributor to the anxiety we feel and our inability to sometimes enjoy the fucking. That anxiety causes you to clench up, your anus doesn't relax, and as he enters you you feel pain because you are fighting him. You are trying to keep him out.

We have been trained to believe anal sex is wrong, that it is supposed to hurt, and so we get anxious. When we want to be fucked because the guy has just turned you on and made you want it, you still fight him as he tries. We need to learn to stop doing that. To accept that our sex is different from that of straight people, and that it's okay to relax and let him in.

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