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Evening Friendlings. So, I had my dental appointment this pm. Was very nervous as I was 'coming out' to the practice as a trans woman for the first time. I ❤️ my dentist ☺️. She was warm and kind and treated me so gently and positively. And right there in front of her, I fixed upon my new name. I was 99.9% certain anyway, but hesitating before the final leap. So that's my dental records changed. Now...just everything else 😳

Hi everyone. I'm Dionne (Dee) 💕👋🏳️‍⚧️

(my teeth were great btw 😁) #Transfem

Alright everyone, new week, new mutual aid goals.

I didnt get enough donations last week to cover all my expenses, so my donation goals are higher now.

Please donate if you can.

I live in an abusive home and my family hates me bc im trans.

Having a roof over my head isnt garanteed, neither is food or anything else.

Please donate to me to help me afford my basic expenses, like HRT, food, new glasses, feminine clothing that fits me, phone bill, etc.

Please help.

Thank you to anyone who boosts or donates.

current goals:

food: 75$/75$

misc bills/expenses: 25$/200$

prescription glasses: 0/250$

payment information:

cashapp: cash.app/vparagon

gofundme: gofund.me/034cef1a

cashapp referral (i make 5$): cash.app/app/QPL1BJF

monero address: 8576pqM8cmNW92eogjqnYzEewZbmwUbY61xRcGmbVCFphchaXKyAad1Xj9oNrYWQNqZkcm2kCHEzea4Y5Wd3DMUW4DozSV2

@mutualaid @disability @trans @vegan

:boosts_ok: Something special for reading today :frog_blush:

[The Celestia Code (Intro)] written by iisaw
youtube.com/watch?v=BnEyZZEn_q

This is a book intro that has stuck with me for the 10+ years I've known of it. It sets up the book perfectly, establishing one of the main character's key convictions *and* subverts it in one go, and sets up where the story will eventually get to part-way through the book in an opening scene that is both concise and also one of the most visceral, evocative scenes I've had the pleasure to read :shiba_love:

You can find the entire text here:
fimfiction.net/story/141549/1/

#Vtuber #ENVtuber #Stream #Streaming #Bard #Trans #TransFem #VoiceActing #Reading #Bookstodon #Books #Fanfic #MLP :cat_interact:

Hey everyone, i need help affording my basic necessities, im an impoverished trans girl who needs help affording basics necessities like phone bill, new glasses, food, etc.

I live in an abusive household with transphobic family who hates me and is abusive and neglectful towards me.

Please help me.

Any donations greatly appreciated.

current goals:

food: 75$/75$

prescription glasses: 0/250$

misc bills/expenses: 125$/150$

payment information:

cashapp: cash.app/vparagon

gofundme: gofund.me/034cef1a

cashapp referral (i make 5$): cash.app/app/QPL1BJF

monero address: 8576pqM8cmNW92eogjqnYzEewZbmwUbY61xRcGmbVCFphchaXKyAad1Xj9oNrYWQNqZkcm2kCHEzea4Y5Wd3DMUW4DozSV2

@mutualaid @disability @trans @vegan

Passing and being content about your appearance as a transfem are two separate things. Passing is more about how others perceive you, with closeness to a cis fem ideal being the goal. Personal contentedness with your own physical self may be the same as that, or it may be quite different. Whatever that may be, it is personal and it is personal contentedness that I seek. I wouldn't say I was immune to caring about the perception of others, far from it. But giving that its due place only and not being a slave to society's standards, or to my own desire to regulate how others perceive me, or to a need to conform to something I am not, is something I value. I also recognise that none of us are ever entirely contented in this way. Before coming into myself as transfem, there was little about my physical self that I could truly connect with in a heartfelt way that brought me joy. Now there are many little things. Not out of vanity (maybe just a little, ha ha). Frankly, more out of relief and gratitude that finally this mortal coil feels like it fits.. and in lots of little ways, fits nicely. It feels like how I imagine almost everyone else gets to feel, at least somewhat. But I didn't. And this, now, is starting to feel natural. No more than that. Not vain. But it is everything

Having felt starved of such experiences, I feel too grateful that that drought is over to care if life still isn't perfect. I will never be Audrey Hepburn, or match her image of grace, much as in my wildest dreams I might wish for that. But that is not important. Nor is passing per se. Passing has practical implications that matter, but in the end all I wish for is to find some, enough, contentedness in myself and for there to be some, enough, recognition and appreciation of who I feel myself to be by others, for a sense of connectedness with humanity at large. And to be embraced by those I care most for as my true self. And that isn't, for me, as a cis woman. It is as a trans woman. A different kind of woman, but as equally valid a woman as any other. Even if or when I passed entirely, I personally will still value that identity as who I truly am. Others may feel differently about their true self and that is totally valid also

I'll end with a little incident that brought me a moment of joy yesterday. I passed two girls in the street, messing around after school. As I approached, one warned the other 'Get out of his way!' The other replied 'She not he!'. And the first, with no hesitation and entirely easily said 'Yes, her way'. And that was that. I didn't need to pass, just to be seen. I don't need to control every faux pas over pronouns. I don't even need to be unambiguous. I just seek to be accepted and for that to be easy and natural. And when I receive that I feel joy and gratitude. And those two girls gave me a moment of hope that new generations could view the world differently. If we let them

Love you all. I'm proud of every one of you, however you find your way on your own paths
💕 #transfem #lgbtqia #transjoy

:boosts_ok: Here's a slightly less, err, virtuous story compared to usual :giggle: and my first story using the new model :shiba_excited:

youtube.com/watch?v=qEp1CF5Gz0

It's honestly so nice to be able to be this expressive now, even with the parameters that still need to be dialed in a bit more, and it feels like a real glow-up from my former png model :eevee_joy:

This comes from my reading streams if you'd like to hear it live or even request a reading of something:
[Twitch] twitch.tv/octaviaconamore
[Youtube] youtube.com/@SuccubardsLibrary

#Vtuber #ENVtuber #Stream #Streaming #Bard #Games #Gaming #LGBTQ #Queer #Trans #TransFem #VoiceActing #Reading #Bookstodon #Books :cat_interact:

:boosts_ok: It's so rare to have funny clips from my streams, but here's one from today: someone requested a reading of The Lusty Argonian Maid and had no clue I'd actually accept the request :cat_giggle:

Streams are on Twitch and Youtube:
twitch.tv/octaviaconamore
youtube.com/@SuccubardsLibrary

#Vtuber #ENVtuber #Stream #Streaming #Bard #Trans #TransFem

(in case the video doesn't work: youtube.com/shorts/j7U1ktLXxms )

my mom, 4 years into my transition: "you know one of our neighbors' kids went from they/them to she/her. there's just so many nerdy boys who changed into trans women... i'm just saying~ there's something in the water"

oh she's ~so~ close

reversing cause and effect would be huge for her

"nerdy boys" oh you mean male-assumed people who are made fun of for not being masculine enough

"nerdy boys" oh you mean people who spend a lot of time engaging with media like fantasy, scifi, and superheroes: genres defined by a theme of imagining alternate ways of being a person, where we are not bound by the same rules as in our own lives, sometimes even questioning the rules themselves

"nerdy boys" oh you mean being interested in/confined to hobbies where we spend time by ourselves, free of/away from the expectations and perceptions of others

nerdhood was the closest thing to a safe haven a girl could find operating a boy mecha

New Fedi, new #introduction post~

Hi, I'm Eleonora! I'm a 39 year old American trans woman living in the UK! I'm an ADHD, autistic individual who identifies as polyamorous, sapphic, and demi-ace. If the entity reading this knows me from elsewhere, then welcome back! I hope we can be friends and have fun together!
:ElainaHeart:

This fedi blog is mostly a personal reflection of myself, my interests, my mental health struggles, trans rights advocacy, and a place where I can be cute and flourish. I gently ask that anyone who follows me or interacts with me
be 18 years of age or older, as I can and will post NSFW content. All follower requests will be vibe-checked for the sake of my/my friends' safety. Basically, just be 18 or older, not have an empty biio, and respect others and I'll likely accept it! ​:blob_cat_salute:

My topics and interests include:

- Anime
- Sapphic/lesbian content (memes, etc)
- Mecha (Gundam, Gunbuster, Franxx, etc)
- Retro console gaming and related technology
- Posting about my girlfriends (of which I currently have two)
- Work regarding my charity
- Girls
- Mental health (both personal and advocacy for)
- Final Fantasy XIV (FFXIV)
- Monster Hunter (the new title is Wilds. HMU?)
- Old digital/analog technology
- LGBTQIA+ culture
- Being a trans mom

Due to some interactions on my previous fedi, I have to set some boundaries (I'm in my villain arc, I guess?)

- I am demi-asexual. That means do not
heavily flirt with me or approach me sexually without asking for consent! If unsure, ask. It's okay to, I promise.
- Do not be weird to my girlfriends or overstep my polycule boundaries, please. I don't like blocking entities.
- Anything that happened in the past (iykyk),
stays in the past for everyone's benefit. I shouldn't have to even say this, but I do.
- I am autistic and I struggle with RSD; please don't approach me in vague terms. It's important to communicate with me bluntly and concisely, because I am dense.

I'll add more here as I go, so expect edit notifications XD But thanks so much for reading! Have a wonderful day!

#noraposting #autism #adhd #makingfriends #anxiety #transfem #trans #sapphic #retro #mecha #ffxiv #monsterhunter